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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 12:33 am

Meet "The Peace Pilgrim"

THE PEACE PILGRIM
[img]http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a46/MishiMoon/pilgrim.jpg[/img]
This is Mildred Lisette Norman Ryder
(July 18, 1908-July 7, 1981),
born on a small poultry farm
in Egg Harbor, NJ, a town about
five miles from my home.

Her father, a carpenter/contractor, and her mother, a homemaker, instilled a strong peace ethic in their children, encouraging discussion of social and political issues, and pursuit of moral questions. The family considered themselves "free-thinkers" who sought answers through reason and logic. They practiced no religion, did not belong to a church, and did not provide formal religious training to their children.

During the Great Depression, she made two important discoveries. The first was that making money is easy. The second was that making money and spending it foolishly is completely meaningless. She knew that this was not what she was here for, but at the time, she didn't know what it was she was here to do.

In 1938, after walking all night through the woods praying for guidance to discover her calling, she underwent a "great spiritual experience." Increasingly uncomfortable about having so much while others were starving, she walked and walked and walked. She described coming to a moonlit opening in the woods: "I felt a complete willingness, without any reservations, to give my life - to dedicate my life - to service... a great peace came over me... I experienced a complete willingness without reservations whatsoever, to give my life to something beyond my self."

From then on, she knew she would be living to give, not to get.

Throughout the 1940's, she worked with senior citizens and those with emotional problems, volunteered in peace organizations, stayed at the Jane Addams House and worked there for the Women's International League for Peace and Freedom -- was their Washington "peace lobbyist," worked for Scott Nearing, a radical economist and staunch pacifist.

She radically simplified her life, ridding herself of unnecessary possessions and frivolous activities. She became a vegetarian, disciplined herself to live on ten dollars a week, and reduced her wardrobe to two dresses. She joined the Endurance Hiking Club, and undertook wilderness treks, to increase her physical strength and to gain experience in simple living. She said that she wanted to practice putting material things in their proper place, "realizing that they are there for use, but relinquishing them when they are not useful." She said she wanted to "experience and learn to appreciate the great freedom of simplicity."

During this time, she discovered the difference between the willingness to give of herself and the actual giving. She described this period as a time when she was engaged in a great struggle between ego and conscience; she said:
    The self-centered nature is a very formidable enemy and it struggles fiercely to retain its identity. It defends itself in a cunning manner and should not be regarded lightly. It knows the weakest spots in your armor...During these periods of attack maintain a humble stature and be intimate with none but the guiding whisper of your higher self.
She believed that overcoming selfishness and gaining release from its power were key to attaining inner peace and spiritual maturity. She believed that when she attained that maturity - physical, mental and emotional - she would be in total harmony and know what to do.

Then, on January 1, 1953, at age 44, after a spiritual journey of 15 years in which she transformed herself completely, she embarked on her "calling" to be a pilgrim for peace. She adopted the name Peace Pilgrim, put on a pair of canvas shoes, donned dark blue slacks, blouse, and a tunic - on which she had sewn her new name - and set out to walk the length of the country. On that first trip, in the midst of the Korean War, the Cold War, and at the height of the McCarthy era, she walked 5,000 miles from California to New York, from coast to coast and from border to border, sharing her message of peace.

During her first pilgrimage in 1953, Peace Pilgrim carried three petitions. One of those called for the creation of a cabinet level Department of Peace in the federal government. It read:
    "This is the way of peace, overcome evil with good and falsehood with truth and hatred with love. We plead for the establishment of a Peace Department, with a Secretary of Peace who accepts these principles--and with all conflicts at home and abroad to be referred to this Peace Department."
    (On September 14, 2005 a bill to create an executive branch Department of Peace was introduced by Congressman Dennis Kucinich of Ohio with 56 co-sponsors.)
For the next 28 years she walked over 25,000 miles, travelling penniless and without any organization, fearlessly calling for international as well as personal disarmament. She walked until given shelter and fasted until given nourishment. She carried only a map, a comb, a toothbrush and a pen in the pockets of her blue tunic. She slept in strangers' homes, when a bed was offered, and on the side of the road when one was not. For nearly 30 years, she walked the country's highways and country roads, heading north when the weather was warm and south when the frost came. She strove always to remain anonymous, to keep the public's attention focused on her message. Even when she returned home to visit family, she did so anonymously. She walked from coast to coast seven times, getting jailed for vagrancy and being investigated by the FBI along the way.
      Her message was a simple one:
      overcome evil with good,
      hatred with love,
      falsehood with truth.

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Source: http://www.peacepilgrim.org/htmfiles/mdppbio.htm
More info: http://www.peacepilgrim.org/FoPP/newsle ... l46pg2.htm
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alchemyst

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 12:44 am

Wow :shock:

Thanks QQ, that was really interesting. I have never heard this story before.
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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 12:59 am

I hesitated to post such a long story, alchemyst, but since it is such an inspiring tale.... I'm glad you read about the lady. I hope others do, too.

Focus matters.

:)
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Nyarlathotep

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Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 7:05 am

And what strikes me as interesting about the whole story is that this way of life was discovered through prayer. Very interesting...exactly who or what was she praying to? And who or what gave her the answers she was seeking...
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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 8:03 am

What is relevant is her utter devotion to her cause. Not many people can keep such an intense focus, no matter who or what they think is driving them toward it.
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Nyarlathotep

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Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 9:34 am

QueenQaab wrote:What is relevant is her utter devotion to her cause. Not many people can keep such an intense focus, no matter who or what they think is driving them toward it.


The war on terrorism is fighting the same level of dedication...people willing to die for their beliefs...
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Central Scrutinizer

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 9:49 am

Religion...is the most dangerous 'thing' on Earth.
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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 10:38 am

What are you two crepe-hangers, blind? The woman was brought up on LOGIC, REASON, and SCIENCE!


She imagined a new use for her life and she brought it to be, much to her satisfaction.


It's pretty sad that you have to diminish her extraordinaly humane mission.
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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 6:33 pm

Nyarlathotep wrote:
QueenQaab wrote:What is relevant is her utter devotion to her cause. Not many people can keep such an intense focus, no matter who or what they think is driving them toward it.


The war on terrorism is fighting the same level of dedication...people willing to die for their beliefs...


Ny, well, obviously, if you don't have a passion for anything, you won't comprehend the point of the story. The woman devoted herself to promoting PEACE. Sounds like a worthy objective to me.

John wrote:Religion...is the most dangerous 'thing' on Earth.


She had no religion; so I don't understand why you said this.
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alchemyst

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 9:30 pm

QQ, I also don't understand why people crapped on this post. I thought she was an extraordinary person. Did I miss something?

I wonder if the writers of Forrest Gump "borrowed" their idea about him doing the same thing from her?
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QueenQaab

Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 9:44 pm

alchemyst wrote:QQ, I also don't understand why people crapped on this post. I thought she was an extraordinary person. Did I miss something?

I wonder if the writers of Forrest Gump "borrowed" their idea about him doing the same thing from her?


I wonder, too, now that you mention it, alchemyst.

In her lifetime, of course, her family and many others deemed her "crazy." Yet, she kept her focus on peace, on "peace" -- not on god, not on religion, not on heaven or hell, but on peace.

I guess I relate to her because my own peace is more important to me than possessions or money. Some people think I'm crazy, too, because I don't feel deprived in my life-style. Even my dear friend says, "That's not right..." when I can't afford something she thinks I "ought" to have. "Well," I tell her, "it is right for me." My sense of peace and comfort is far greater than hers because I'm not longing for various and assorted "stuff" I don't have. I really am more content than most, so I can "imagine" the Peace Pilgrim's sense of contentment.

I had hoped this thread might be an inspiration to people who have a dream and think they can't get it. Having a passion to pursue gives life meaning.
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Post Sat Jul 01, 2006 10:16 pm

Having a passion to pursue gives life meaning.


The only passions I see as having merit are "love and knowledge." Tis more than enough for me. Love makes positive social interaction possible and knowledge makes understanding possible as well as personal sustainability.
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EileenR

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Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 8:49 am

Wouldn't you have loved to meet such a person? In the past two weeks (since my sister closed her cafe due to ill health) I've had people sitting in my living room and dinning room every day. They are friends and family and loyal customers with no place else to go. I know this crowd with fade away soon but I wish she could join us and sit down and explain herself.

Maybe the messge here is if we meet someone with that kind of passion we should help them to keep going. They say it cost a fortune to keep Gandi in poverty. But what if no one paid?
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alchemyst

Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 9:24 am

EileenR wrote:Wouldn't you have loved to meet such a person?


Yes. I'll bet she had a contagious spark of enthusiasm! Who knows how many people she inspired along the way?
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Central Scrutinizer

Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 10:52 am

QueenQaab wrote:
Nyarlathotep wrote:
QueenQaab wrote:What is relevant is her utter devotion to her cause. Not many people can keep such an intense focus, no matter who or what they think is driving them toward it.


The war on terrorism is fighting the same level of dedication...people willing to die for their beliefs...


Ny, well, obviously, if you don't have a passion for anything, you won't comprehend the point of the story. The woman devoted herself to promoting PEACE. Sounds like a worthy objective to me.

John wrote:Religion...is the most dangerous 'thing' on Earth.


She had no religion; so I don't understand why you said this.



I was referring to the war on terror..
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QueenQaab

Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 6:31 pm

Eileen, yes, I wish I had met her. I didn't know of her until she died and her nearby community decided to memorialize her with a very plain statue of her in their little park.

I'm sorry to hear of your sister's ill health and the closing of her cafe.
For some people, a little local cafe is where they go for their only conversational contact with others who are peers. After my mom died, my dad used to go to a little diner where all the old widowed fellows hung out a couple of times a week. There was good homecooked food and the homey comradeship with others in the same boat. When the "Tally-Ho Diner" was pushed out of business and torn down by "re-development," he was so sad. After that, they hung out on the benches outside the supermarket or at Dunkin' Donuts. It just wasn't the same.

It's wonderful that folks are meeting in your home like that.
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QueenQaab

Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 7:05 pm

Central Scrutinizer wrote:
John wrote:Religion...is the most dangerous 'thing' on Earth.


She had no religion; so I don't understand why you said this.



I was referring to the war on terror..[/quote]

Oh, okay, and I completely agree with that.

I completely prefer "Promoting Peace" to "Making War." And that is what my "gracious" country should be doing instead of killing people and trying to bend them to the american dictator's will.

It's notable that fifty years after Peace Pilgrim's petition for a "Department of Peace," a bill was introduced seeking to establish exactly that. I don't know if this is part of her legacy. I'm going to try to find that out. Don't know if the bill was even passed.
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EileenR

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Post Sun Jul 02, 2006 10:18 pm

I think this calls for a new post! Where do you hang out?

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